This is a question that I have been dealing with lately as I have been dealing with lots of change. The thing is that the changes that happened that affected me were because of decisions made by others. So I ask: if change happens to you, out of your control, is it still good? Well if you had asked me that question a month ago I would’ve said a resounding NO. But now after I’ve had time to think and time to process everything that I would say now change may be hard in any form it takes but inevitably it does tend to be for the good. The decisions that were made were best for them and it also allowed me to change the dynamic at work. I found a whole new perspective on everything. Change really was good! It was hard and I cried a lot but now all I do is smile at the great way it has turned out for everybody. All of this upheaval made me think of a quote:

“In three words I can summon up everything I’ve learned about life… It goes on…” Robert Frost

That is the truth of it all. You can make all the plans in the world and more than likely they will fall apart in some way. Bad things happen, change happens made by you or thrust upon you and great things happen too and no matter what life does continue on. It all comes down to how you handle the change. It’s ok to be upset and sad and all your other valid feelings but then you have to accept the changes, deal with it and move on. Who knows you may be moving onto something great.

I want to share what makes me happy in times of upheaval.

My sweet boy Lincoln.

Happy Wednesday!